Was Reading The Gospel of Holy Mother ( Sri Sarada Devi, wife of Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansha ) In the book was mention of how the mother prayed to the Master ( Sri Ramakrishna) to take away the ability to find faults in others, and she attained it. I opened up a document of Golden words of holy Mother and the following quote came up."I tell you one thing. If you want peace of mind, do not find fault with others. Rather see your own faults. Learn to make the whole world your own. No one is a stranger, my child; the whole world is your own."
This reminded the story of Sai Baba in Shirdi found in Sai SatCharitra. Once it so happened that a Bhakta of Sai Baba, reviled another behind his back, before other people. On leaving aside merits, he dwelt on the faults of his brother, and spoke so sarcastically, that the hearers were disgusted. This happened in the sacred
Sai Baba pointed out that even the sacred
“If, instead of seeing faults in others, we look within ourselves, we are loving God. “